In 2013, Techeal Gonquoi had just finished third grade and expressed a desire to play sports. But his parents were both busy working multiple jobs; they wouldn’t be available to take him to and from practices and games.

Plus, Gonquoi’s mother, Musu Dorliae, felt her son’s public school in Delaware County wasn’t the best fit.

Then she found out about Masonic Children’s Home, on the sprawling 1,400-acre Masonic Village campus in Elizabethtown. The home, which currently houses 35 residents, has hosted more than 2,100 children since the Pennsylvania Freemasons established it in 1913.

Those residents include youngsters in elementary school up to teenagers in high school. They attend either Elizabethtown Area School District, Lancaster-Lebanon Intermediate Unit 13 programs or the Lancaster County Career & Technology Center. They also have the option to play sports at Elizabethtown.

Gonquoi, now a junior at Elizabethtown Area High School, is in his eighth year living at the Masonic Children’s Home during the school year. He lives with his family during the summers in a house just a few miles from the heart of Philadelphia.

Looking back on his arrival at the children’s home, when he was in fourth grade, Gonquoi admits it was a difficult adjustment.

“It was different in Philly. The schools were way different,” Gonquoi said. “It felt weird going to school (at Elizabethtown). I was more used to seeing people like me.”

Techeal and his brothers

From left to right, brothers Anthony Wreh, Techeal Gonquoi, Shedrack Wreh and Cyrus Wresh. 2020.

Finding a niche

Sports helped Gonquoi get comfortable in his new environment. The sport that stuck is basketball, which he’s been playing since fifth grade. He is the starting point guard and No. 3 scorer for the E-town boys basketball team this season.

“I love the pace of the game,” Gonquoi said. “With basketball, you’re always running, you’re always moving. It’s fun to be in that team environment.”

Gonquoi’s journey isn’t uncommon. There have been plenty of former Masonic Children’s Home residents who played sports at Elizabethtown over the years. One recent example is Amos Kollie, who lived at the home and played for the Bears boys basketball team before graduating in 2019. Current Elizabethtown sophomore Joy Ngafua, who lives at the home, is a first-year Bears cheerleader this winter and hopes to play lacrosse this spring.

“I actually knew of (Ngafua) before I got (to Elizabethtown),” Gonquoi said. “She used to go to my church (in Philadelphia).”

What makes Gonquoi’s story unique is this: His current basketball coach, Lee Eckert, is also one of the house parents at the Masonic Children’s Home.

Eckert, a Hempfield graduate and former Elizabethtown College basketball standout, is the Bears’ new varsity boys basketball coach. He left a job with River Rock Academy to become a house parent at Masonic Children’s Home about a year ago.

“I probably talk to (Gonquoi) almost daily,” Eckert said. “When I got the head coaching job, I was (at the Masonic Children’s Home) all summer.”

Coach and player put up shots on the outdoor court just yards from the house where Gonquoi lives with seven other boys, each with their own room. One of those other boys is Gonquoi’s younger stepbrother, Anthony Wreh. Their two younger half brothers, Shedrack and Cyrus Wreh, also live on the Masonic campus.

“I try to lead by my actions,” said Gonquoi, who tries to be a role model for his siblings. “I give them advice about how to handle certain situations and stuff like that.”

Techeal Gonquoi and family

In an earlier photo from 2012, from left to right, Shedrack Wreh, Musu Dorliae, Cyrus Wreh, Dennis Wreh, Anthony Wreh and Techeal Gonquoi.

Forging a new life

Of the four brothers, Techeal was the only one who was born in Liberia, a country on the western edge of the African continent along the Atlantic coast.

In 2005, two years after the second civil war in Liberia ended and a year after Gonquoi was born, his mother brought him with her to the United States as a refugee. Dorliae later married and had sons Shedrack and Cyrus. She obtained U.S. citizenship in 2011, as did Gonquoi in 2017.

Dorliae works full-time as a nursing assistant. Gonquoi’s biological father remains in Liberia.

“I’m still in contact with him,” Gonquoi said. “But ever since I left, I haven’t seen him in person. But we talk on the phone. He calls me. I call him sometimes.”

Gonquoi has an older sister, Tutu, who was also born in Liberia. She now lives in Pittsburgh, working as a nurse.

Techeal Gonquoi and sister

Techeal Gonquoi, left, and older sister, Tutu Gonquoi. Both were born in Liberia.

Tutu Gonquoi is a graduate of the University of Pittsburgh. She was the first in her family to go college. Techeal Gonquoi will soon become the second, thanks in large part to the opportunities he’s been afforded through the Masonic Children’s Home.

In the classroom, Gonquoi said he excels at math but most enjoys science.

“I’m just a hands-on learner,” he said. “I like experimenting with things. You’ve got chemicals to work with. … That’s really fun for me.”

His sister was able to see him play for the first time last season when Elizabethtown traveled to the western part of the state and won a PIAA tournament game for the first time in program history.

“I’m grateful to be here,” he said. “If I wouldn’t have come here, it would’ve been hard. In Philly, the school I was going to … there were always fights happening. There was always something happening at that school. So when I came here, this place helped me grow up and see life in a different perspective.”

Gonquoi is motivated to make good on all the hard work put in by his parents.

“One day,” he said. “I want to buy them something or get them out the ’hood.”

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